Comments for Bisexual Dilemma http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com Wed, 23 Sep 2009 01:25:06 +0000 http://wordpress.com/ hourly 1 Comment on Online Dating by funnygirl http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/2007/07/16/online-dating/#comment-159 funnygirl Wed, 23 Sep 2009 01:25:06 +0000 http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/2007/07/16/online-dating/#comment-159 I just wanted to say that I have been puzzled about what to do on Match.com as well. I have been with women for the last ten years, but I have always been honest with them about my sexuality. Now that I am single, being bisexual is a lot more complicated! I wish people on both sides of the aisle could see us for what we truly are, which is queer! Gender is no longer fixed in our culture and this will hopefully one day change the acceptance of bisexuality, since it will no longer matter what gender you were when you were born. I just wanted to say that I have been puzzled about what to do on Match.com as well. I have been with women for the last ten years, but I have always been honest with them about my sexuality. Now that I am single, being bisexual is a lot more complicated! I wish people on both sides of the aisle could see us for what we truly are, which is queer! Gender is no longer fixed in our culture and this will hopefully one day change the acceptance of bisexuality, since it will no longer matter what gender you were when you were born.

]]> Comment on Bisexuality & Monogamy by Bisexuals and Monogamy : Bi Social News | Social. Entertainment. News. - For Today’s Bisexual http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/2007/07/15/bisexuality-monogamy/#comment-151 Bisexuals and Monogamy : Bi Social News | Social. Entertainment. News. - For Today’s Bisexual Wed, 12 Aug 2009 20:22:31 +0000 http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/2007/07/15/bisexuality-monogamy/#comment-151 [...] of the web, I found a few people who have been trying to grapple with the question. There was one young woman who attempted to answer the question in a college term paper, to no avail. Then there’s a fellow [...] [...] of the web, I found a few people who have been trying to grapple with the question. There was one young woman who attempted to answer the question in a college term paper, to no avail. Then there’s a fellow [...]

]]> Comment on ‘Bisexual’ label causes confusion, controversy by LadyHeroin. http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/bisexual-label-causes-confusion-controversy/#comment-145 LadyHeroin. Mon, 27 Jul 2009 02:31:45 +0000 http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/bisexual-label-causes-confusion-controversy/#comment-145 True bisexuals, such as myself, do exist. My first love was a woman, and my current love is a man. I do have a girl, and I do love her, I'm just not in love with her yet. I don't have a preference, per se. I love women and I love men, equally. So, in that sense, no, true bisexuals are not common at all. :) True bisexuals, such as myself, do exist. My first love was a woman, and my current love is a man. I do have a girl, and I do love her, I’m just not in love with her yet. I don’t have a preference, per se. I love women and I love men, equally. So, in that sense, no, true bisexuals are not common at all.

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]]> Comment on The L Word finishes off the B word… by On killing Jenny Schecter and the tangled web we weave « Nycdatingdisaster’s Weblog http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/2009/03/09/the-l-word-finishes-off-the-b-word/#comment-116 On killing Jenny Schecter and the tangled web we weave « Nycdatingdisaster’s Weblog Wed, 11 Mar 2009 02:37:29 +0000 http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/?p=42#comment-116 [...] a weird. What do I identify as then? Am I straight, lesbian, or bisexual like Alice Pieczecki, whose sexual identity was basically erased as the L-Word evolved? (Yes, ok. I’m still distrurbed by the last episode! Can you blame me?) [...] [...] a weird. What do I identify as then? Am I straight, lesbian, or bisexual like Alice Pieczecki, whose sexual identity was basically erased as the L-Word evolved? (Yes, ok. I’m still distrurbed by the last episode! Can you blame me?) [...]

]]> Comment on Online Dating by ruth http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/2007/07/16/online-dating/#comment-115 ruth Tue, 10 Mar 2009 21:16:12 +0000 http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/2007/07/16/online-dating/#comment-115 Do ya'll know or find a good web site for bi's in fl for meeting people. it is true a like sites don't like bi's!! it is not we are confused? It is or mite be a gender thing...or a prefence?! But it is allways good to have a safe...great....site we can go to. Do ya’ll know or find a good web site for bi’s in fl for meeting people.

it is true a like sites don’t like bi’s!! it is not we are confused? It is or mite be a gender thing…or a prefence?! But it is allways good to have a safe…great….site we can go to.

]]> Comment on About Me: by BiNet USA Web Tech http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/about-me/#comment-112 BiNet USA Web Tech Mon, 15 Dec 2008 20:55:24 +0000 #comment-112 We've put a new tracker onto the BiNet USA website "find group" page so we could (in general - it doesn't allow us to snoop on individual people) figure out where people needed help: http://www.binetusa.org/Pages/network.html We notice that people are trying to contact Bisexual Groups in Chicago. We currently only have you listed here: http://www.myspace.com/bi_chi Should there be some other Chicago Groups listed? If you want you can just put a note onto the main BiNet USA Yahoo Group or onto the Bi Leaders Yahoo Group to tell us what else should be there. Thank You We’ve put a new tracker onto the BiNet USA website “find group” page so we could (in general – it doesn’t allow us to snoop on individual people) figure out where people needed help:

http://www.binetusa.org/Pages/network.html

We notice that people are trying to contact Bisexual Groups in Chicago. We currently only have you listed here:

http://www.myspace.com/bi_chi

Should there be some other Chicago Groups listed? If you want you can just put a note onto the main BiNet USA Yahoo Group or onto the Bi Leaders Yahoo Group to tell us what else should be there.

Thank You

]]> Comment on Dyketastic! by ulla http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/2008/11/16/dyketastic/#comment-111 ulla Sun, 16 Nov 2008 23:26:19 +0000 http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/?p=40#comment-111 come and do the interview on my blog ... please? come and do the interview on my blog … please?

]]> Comment on Participate in a Study on Bisexual Women’s Health by bisexualdilemma http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/2008/04/11/particpate-in-a-study-on-bisexual-women%e2%80%99s-health/#comment-77 bisexualdilemma Mon, 26 May 2008 17:26:23 +0000 http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/?p=31#comment-77 Life got a little hectic and I only blog when I have things to say. Doubtless once things settle down I'll post something new soon. Life got a little hectic and I only blog when I have things to say. Doubtless once things settle down I’ll post something new soon.

]]> Comment on Participate in a Study on Bisexual Women’s Health by queerunity http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/2008/04/11/particpate-in-a-study-on-bisexual-women%e2%80%99s-health/#comment-76 queerunity Mon, 26 May 2008 17:12:01 +0000 http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/?p=31#comment-76 no more blogging for you? http://www.queersunited.blogspot.com no more blogging for you?
http://www.queersunited.blogspot.com

]]> Comment on Umm I don’t really want a shot of that kthx by gen.aviv http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/2007/09/30/umm-i-dont-really-want-a-shot-of-that-kthx/#comment-54 gen.aviv Fri, 23 Nov 2007 14:13:40 +0000 http://bisexualdilemma.wordpress.com/2007/09/30/umm-i-dont-really-want-a-shot-of-that-kthx/#comment-54 NO! I also find Tila Tequila unattractive. her body is great wonderful yea yea yea, but man that face...it only looks good at certain angles and at a certain light, but most of the time she looks like a weird old woman. I don't know if its her lips or what, but if you squint your eyes her face looks like an old woman's face. whatever, I'm babbling. Anyways, that quote you gave from Tila stating will she be "lesbian or straight" at the end, it is frustrating...again, like being bisexual is a transitional phase and not as legitimate as being "gay" or "straight". But you also have to put into consideration that Tila probably didn't write that whole schpeel, I'm almost positive that STRAIGHT writers for the show wrote that and had no idea what they were talking about. Yet still, frustrating. NO! I also find Tila Tequila unattractive. her body is great wonderful yea yea yea, but man that face…it only looks good at certain angles and at a certain light, but most of the time she looks like a weird old woman. I don’t know if its her lips or what, but if you squint your eyes her face looks like an old woman’s face. whatever, I’m babbling.

Anyways, that quote you gave from Tila stating will she be “lesbian or straight” at the end, it is frustrating…again, like being bisexual is a transitional phase and not as legitimate as being “gay” or “straight”. But you also have to put into consideration that Tila probably didn’t write that whole schpeel, I’m almost positive that STRAIGHT writers for the show wrote that and had no idea what they were talking about. Yet still, frustrating.

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